Monday, September 15, 2025

48. Travel

I am presently in Kuala Lumpur. No guidebook, no strong idea of what is here. I am a bad tourist, for sure. But somehow we've gotten out and enjoyed ourselves the past couple of days—failing repeatedly to get on the Hop On Hop Off tourist bus, mostly because of crowds (it's a four-day national holiday), which means we've been walking. Just walking, just looking around. Occasionally stopping to take a photo or get something to drink. The city feels quite intimate, really—despite the bustle. Today, we'll try for the bus again, maybe hop off at the Bird Park and the National Mosque. Not too much.

Yesterday I came across this post on FB, which resonated (click on it to read it):


And then just now in my inbox, a poem by George Bilgere, which is somewhat in the same vein:

Once Again I Fail to Read an Important Novel

Instead, we sit together beside the fountain,
the important novel and I.

We are having coffee together
in that quiet first hour of the morning,
respecting each other’s silences
in the shadow of an important old building
in this small but significant European city.

All the characters can relax.
I’m giving them the day off.
For once they can forget about their problems—
desire, betrayal, the fatal denouement—
and just sit peacefully beside me.

In the afternoon,
at lunch near the cathedral,
and in the evening, after my lonely,
historical walk along the promenade,

the men and women, the children
and even the dogs
in the important, complicated novel
have nothing to fear from me.

We will sit quietly at the table
with a glass of cool red wine
and listen to the pigeons
questioning each other in the ancient corridors.


I'm more interested in sipping wine and listening to the pigeons than in cramming it all in. It's still all of it, in any given moment, no matter what we're doing.

And to close—speaking of being randomly in the right place at the right time—check out this fabulous flash mob performance in, yes, Paris. Oh to have been wandering through that square at just that moment!




Tuesday, September 9, 2025

47. A few days before our big trip

I typically get anxious before a big trip, but not this time. (So far.) Today I had two chores on my radar: clean off the card table in the living room (done) and go to REI to shop for a pair of pants (done) and return a bear vault—the smallest model, it's not allowed in the Yosemite backcountry because bears have been known to pick them up in their jaws and carry them away (also done: $78 refund, baby). 

I keep thinking: I've got all the bookings—airport shuttle, flights, hotels, car—printed out and in my blue plastic folder; I've got my passport. I've even got 40 colorful Australian dollars, from a long-ago trip. What more do I need? Even if I somehow lost my suitcase, I could pick up whatever I lacked in Kuala Lumpur—which surely is a shopping mecca? 

Tomorrow I may clean out the fridge. Put away the jigsaw puzzle that's been sitting on my desk for months. (One of our housesitters came by yesterday for "the tour," and he noted the puzzle with interest. So maybe they're into jigsaws. I'll get the place ready for them in that regard.) Do some dusting. (Dusting is one thing we're pretty bad at, generally. Oh! Look at the huge pile of insect corpses under those lovely floaty webs! I will be investigating all the corners tomorrow.) Vacuum.

The housesitter who came by, Josh, didn't flinch at the "lived-in" look of our house. So whatever cleaning up I do will probably be more for me than for him and his wife. Something I'd like to come home to.

I don't enjoy the travel part of travel. (That is, I don't like being in-transit. I love being wherever I'm going.) This upcoming in-transit day will be very, very long—and I'm too cheap to spring for business class. I don't get on an airplane to be comfortable. Maybe one day before I die, though, if I still have any money left (a dubious notion in this country at this time), I'll book a luxury flight to... somewhere. The last place on my list, maybe. 

What would that be? What is my list? It's certainly changed over the years, as I've checked places off and as my boundaries have shrunk. Because yeah, I find that as I age, I'm less adventurous. I hate that. I'm glad Kuala Lumpur jumped into my face and yelled, Come to me! And then nudged me into continuing on to Western Australia—which I visited some thirty years ago, but that was on a tour, and this time we're winging it. Wheeee!

What is my list? What places would I still love to visit?

New Orleans
Prague
Spain
Greece
Tasmania
South Africa and the Western Cape (this would be a good destination for that first-class booking)
Namibia (again)
Berlin
Japan (again: in 1982 we spent two and a half months there on our honeymoon; I bet it's changed and hasn't, both)
the Maritime Provinces of Canada, and also Quebec (both Quebec City and Montreal)

There's still some exploring to do. And I'm not getting any younger. These ten places, before I die. It's a mission.


Saturday, September 6, 2025

46. Favorite movies

Every so often, I google "long-term apartment rentals in ______"—typically some locality in Europe, because anywhere in Europe is surrounded by Europe, meaning travel opportunities; plus, I more or less can get by in some of the European languages. Tonight the winning city was Bruges, Belgium, where I found small but cozy flats in the €1,000 range. I could afford that. Why Bruges? Because it's a charming city, the climate might be not quite so hot in summer as southern France, I can speak some Flemish, and... why not? In any case, it's important to dream. 

That brought to mind the movie In Bruges, which is one of my all-time favorites. And that got me to thinking about other all-time favorites. So here's an off-the-cuff list, just because. (Not in any particular order. The numbers are meaningless, but I feel they're needed for "a list.")

And need I say: "all-time favorite" doesn't necessarily mean a masterpiece. It's just something that if I were stranded on a desert island (with electricity and a TV) I could watch over and over and over and, yes, over again. I have certainly done that already with all of these.

(I did have a little help, after I got to #9, from the iMDB list of the Top 250 movies. The rankings below reflect that list, which also explains the order of titles after #9. But then occasionally another favorite title, one not in the list, would hit me, disrupting the flow.)

1. The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert
2. Strictly Ballroom
3. Wings of Desire
4. Dirty Dancing
5. Looper
6. African Queen
7. The Music Man (I like to sing along)
8. The Matrix (#16)
9. Rashomon (#169)
10. The Usual Suspects (#48)
11. WALL-E (#56)
12. Singin' in the Rain (if only for the title-song scene) (#89)
13. North by Northwest (#105)
14. Die Hard (#115)
15. Mad Max: Fury Road (#184)
16. Beautiful Days 
17. The Great Escape (#159)
18. Bridge over the River Kwai (#174)
19. Fargo (#177)
20. The Sound of Music (again, to sing along) (#229)
21. The Wizard of Oz—of course (#234)
22. Back to the Future (#30)
23. Se7en (#20)
24. Casablanca (#45)
25. Diva

Btw, the iMDB rankings are calculated thus:

  • The list is ranked by a formula which includes the number of ratings each movie received from users, and value of ratings received from regular users
  • To be included on the list, a movie must receive ratings from at least 25000 users

As you may have noted, many of my favorites that came straight out of my head, not from a list, are not on said list. I'm not sure what that means. If anything. But it definitely makes me wonder what other favorite movies just aren't popping into my mind. I'll add any that do.